Three in a marriage

There is a saying: in a marriage when you begin to trust a person on outside it more than the one in it, it’s bound to create problems.

Three people in a marriage can be a tricky situation. This is also known as triangular web and whenever we talk about such situation we can’t forget the Princess Diana famous statement in a Television interview when she spoke for the first time about her marriage hanging by a threat. ”There were three of us. It got a little crowded.”

But how is this third person comes?

He or she comes as ex-lover or a newly found love. It is not necessary to this third to be physically present but can be just present in the mind of the one.

Human relationship is a set of complicated mixture of closeness and separation. But each closeness and separation leaves a strong mark on mind and it is very likely that husband or wife may like to go into the past and till their memory and compare his or her present comfort level with the past.

It is natural but at the same time dangerous for the present relation if the comparative voices are left loose in the open.

Many relationship counselor and Psychologist think that very ways.

But truth is truth. If mind will think mouth will say. As British Model and Actress Elizabeth Hurley, 44, who has much bigger female fan base than male, said recently before media that her comfort level was high with Hugh Grant, (with whom she had dated for 13 years) though she is presently married to Indo-British business man Arun Nayar.

Pop star Madonna said several interviews that the comfort level she sheared with her first husband Sean Penn, despite their falling out, is irreplaceable.

Elizabeth Taylor said even though that time they were separated: “Richard Burton was magnificent in every sense of word, and in everything he ever did. He was the kindest, funniest and most gentle father. All my kids worshiped him. Attentive, loving- that was Richard. From those first moments in Rome, we were always madly and powerfully in love. We had more time but not enough.”