Friday, February 26, 2010

How long does it take to fall in love.

We have seen films, read books and talked long about it but do we really know how things works?

Simple! Man and woman meet, talk about many wonderful things of life and felt a strong urge to meet again to talk again and finally concludes- they are in love.

Is love so simple? So easy to understand.

Mostly these cheesy things end up as bubbles in water. Its scars remain long in mind and heart then we fear from any kind of serious relationship. Love then becomes a distant dream.
But sometimes eyes find someone whom heart can best dream off then the problem comes and it happens more often than not.

We fear to give ourselves entirely to anyone. We remember that pain, that loss that separation.
Pain is not something like happiness that we can shear and feel light. It is something very profound in nature. It keeps reminding, keep stoping, keep reducing the fermentation of our blood.
Our fear becomes our controlling engine that always drives us away from our most important and most vulnerable influence of emotion called- Love.
We find ourselves caught in destiny’s mysterious web. It is now too late to allow ourselves to start afresh and we are forced to live with a deeper sense of cruelty of loneliness in our heart.

Break this fear, learn new things become a new and fall in love. The wound will heal, the pain will vanish, the separation will be a story of past and your soul-mate will be in your heart.
Love is a wonderful emotion that takes time to grow, when it touches the life, life finds its real meaning.

After all how much time it takes to fall in love: the new research of Professors at the University of Pennsylvania says that when it comes to picking a suitable life partner, we just take three seconds of time.

This research was done over 100,000 people who were given three minutes of time with speedy dating event to find out how the whole attraction works? Participants had three minutes to get to know each other, the researchers discovered that decisions were usually made within the first three seconds.

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